Showing posts with label Men. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Men. Show all posts

Saturday, August 21, 2010

Men Enabling Their Own Humiliation

What Men are becoming. (HT CorbisImages.com)



Regular readers of this blog know about the misandry that's out there. However, certain men have enable and emboldened it. The two fields that do this the most are advertising and entertainment. Here;s an example from The UK Daily Mail:

"It is men who are beginning to look like the real losers. The evidence is all around us. For mothers of sons, like myself, it is profoundly worrying.

Boys are being out-performed by girls academically, socially and at work. They have worse GCSE results and fewer of them go on to higher education. Male graduates are 50 per cent more likely to be unemployed than girls.

Partly, this is the result of the feminisation of education —- 85 per cent of ­primary school teachers are women, while in GCSEs a high proportion of marks come from continual assessment, which suits girls, whereas boys tend to perform better in do-or-die exams.

And it is partly the result of all those centuries of male hegemony, which has left them complacent and ill-equipped to deal with competition from women.

There are other factors, of course. The loss of our manufacturing base means there are far fewer employment opportunities for the non-academic male.

Many working-class boys are deprived not only of jobs but also of fathers — or indeed any positive male role models in their community at all.

But in recent years a worrying additional ingredient has been added to this depressing vista: the increasingly common ­cultural message that men are dolts.

From Outnumbered (long-suffering husband whose children run rings round him, none more so than his daughter) to the immensely popular My Family, where Zoe Wanamaker’s spiky character, Susan, effortlessly manipulates her hapless husband Ben (who only became a dentist because he failed to get the grades to be a doctor), men are portrayed as idiots saved only by the wit and wisdom of women.

Even George Clooney, one of Hollywood’s sexiest and most bankable male actors, has fallen victim.

That Saturday night DVD we watched was Up In The Air, which sees Clooney first dismissed as an ageing has-been by his young female colleague and then ultimately betrayed by the sexy, beguiling woman he decides he might finally want to settle down with.

I can understand women of my generation and the one following it taking part in this cultural assassination of men: we grew up, after all, being positively encouraged to fight our corner in what was still a vicious sex war.

But what I don’t understand is the way men themselves are colluding in what has now become a dangerous and damaging trend. Up In The Air was written and directed by men. The same is true for Outnumbered and the vast majority of episodes of My Family.

I can’t help but wonder where this will end and what sort of men our son and his peers will become."

The culture is increasingly feminized, and many men just went along with it. This has to stop. If men don't step up and take their character back, things will only get worse.

Background Intel:

UK Daily Mail: Why are men colluding in their own humiliation?

Saturday, July 24, 2010

Women Cheaters & The Men-Do-Everthing-Wrong Card

Not buyin' it, St. Slutty. (HT The Stir)



Time to slaughter some feminarcissist sacred cows. The subject: Cheating. From the Stir, written by a woman:

"How is anyone supposed to have a healthy relationship when we have this idiotic, self-serving bias that makes women out to be saints and men to be losers no matter what they do -- even if they cheat?

An article on Why Women Cheat is just one more version of the tired old trope: When men cheat, it’s because they do everything wrong. And when women cheat ... it’s because men do everything wrong.

Oh, and by the way? I call BS. Everybody likes sex. Everybody feels emotionally isolated sometimes. We cheat for all sorts of reasons, good and bad. But some kind of innate gender-based approach to sex is not one of them.

The experts cited to support this well-loved but full-of-holes theory say things like, “[Women] are on a sinking ship and use [an affair] as a life raft because they don’t want to just jump into the cold water!” Oh, noble, noble women -- it’s not that you’re just as irresponsible as your male counterparts! It’s that you’re looking to make sure your children are cared for after you leave your marriage, because evolution told you so!

Bottom line is -- one huge wrong doesn’t make the other person 100 percent right. And you don’t get to hold up your uterus as some magical beacon of goodness. Because that’s as reductive and sexist as everything else we feminists have been fighting. A’ight? Rant over."

I love when a woman gets it. Very refreshing.

Background Intel:

The Stir: Women Cheat Because Men Do Everything Wrong?
The Stir: Ask Dad: Why Do Men Cheat?
WebMD: Why Women Cheat

Sunday, July 18, 2010

Welcome To Adland, Where All Men Are Morons

What Ad campaigns think of Men. (HT Fotosearch.com)



This is conformation of what I've known for a long time now. From the Sydney Morning Herald:

"I have no doubt that women have historical and ongoing problems about their portrayal in advertising, particularly being sexually objectified. I remember such scandals as the sexist Windsor Smith shoe ads (pictured below), which showed women placed close to men's crotches as if about to perform a lewd act.



But along with the creeping sexualisation of women has come the creeping moronification of men. If the default position in advertising for women is sex object, then the default position for men is that of imbecile.

Men used to be depicted as heroic characters in ads, products being the rewards for their manly efforts. "You got to work it hard, to be a Solo man. You're gonna take the lead and let the others follow," crowed the voice-over as our champion braved rapids in a canoe to be rewarded with a frosty, refreshing Solo at the end. "You can get it walkin'! You can get it talkin! You can get it working a plough! Matter o' fact I've got it now! Victoria Bitter! . . ." went the beer ad, run along with images of hard-working men engaged in back-breaking, yet satisfying, endeavours, the VB being the prize for their labours.

Today's ads don't seem to give a tinker's cuss about the nobility of men's endeavours. Men are no longer heroes but consumers. Worse, they're idiots. They might as well be saying, "Hey, dickhead! We don't care about your job and who you are! You're a worthless, interchangeable cog in the capitalist system! Catch!" as a six-pack is hurtled towards some poor bloke's melon.

Just as the soul-destroying messages in women's magazines are crafted by their female staff, so too are the negative messages about men crafted overwhelming by men in advertising agencies. For some reason, they have deduced that delivering a psychic kick to men's testicles is the best way to sell a whole host of products.

"Darwin was right," our faceless adman might say, "men are descended from apes! APES!"

"So let's treat them as the knuckledraggers they are," his pony-tailed sidekick might respond.

So it goes. The evidence is everywhere."

A great example of this misandry is the latest round of Miller Lite beer commercials. I get more angry watching those than if a player on the team I'm rooting for makes a bad play. Way to insult your customers, especially since men consume 72.8% of beer in this country.

Background Intel:

Sydney Morning Herald: Welcome to adland, where all men are morons

Friday, June 18, 2010

A Feminarcissist's Dream

The Radical Fiminists Dream. (HT John Ritter):



Atlantic Monthly has done it again. It features the clitorati's utopia: A world without men. Maria Schriver proudly declared that the US is " A Woman's Nation".

Background Intel:

Atlantic Monthly: The End of Men